black, white or grey....

You have certain things in your life that you see as black, white and maybe even grey. When you have a very black and white outlook on life it may come across as you being judgemental and maybe you are. What should determine what to speak about and what to stay silent about? When you see someone doing something that goes against your own beleif or value as a human being, do you say "to one his own way" or do you talk with them about it?

I am on a journey to figure about what to speak about and what to stay silent about. I don't want to use my beliefs to manipulate and control people, my intention is do never do that although somtimes I come across that way. To the world I may mean something and to myself something completely different. I am searching to figure out how I preceive things and how I come across. A letter to myself and those I love....

Dear Whoever,

My heart is to never look at you and hold you to a standard you don't want to be held to. The beat of my movement and my heart never wants to beat to hard to where I hurt you. I long to be able to look at you with a loving heart, good body language and open eyes. Never do I want you to feel that you can't come to me and share what is going on in fear that my beat and who I am and what I think will judge you. As I run and hold on to what I know is true I hope to come to a place where openness is goodness, love is first, and you fell free. To put you first, to hold you above, and to place you where there are no hidden agendas is my aspiration. That the words on this page would become the statements that my life convey. You are important, not defined by what you do but by how you do it and who are you becoming. I hope that as we converse and challenge each other that you know at the deepest place in your soul I only desire what is greatest for you by your standard. Not my own but by what your soul knows to be true. May you be spoken to in way that changes you for the best and not for judgement sake. You are valuable, loved and cherished.

From,
Me